Resolved Question: Girl is being distant and i don’t know what to do.?
hello folks,
I would like to apologize for typing soo much but i felt i had to put the key facts down so you can have a better understanding of my situation so thank you in advance for taking the time out to help me.
Ive been going out on dates with this girl since july and we have been getting along great. Going on hiking trips, movies, mini golf, bowling etc, plus she loves fresh flowers so i bring her flowers twice a week. I have spent countless nights with her and only tried twice to have sex and she made it clear that she wants to wait, which is no prob for me because i really like her, so we just cuddle. My birthday was two weeks ago and she bought me a iphone, $150 dinner at a fancy steak house, and many other creative smaller gifts that she obviously put alot of thought into because of their personal meaning in my life. Ok so here is where things get wierd. last thursay i spent the night with her and everything was fine. Saturday we talk like normal and she tells me that she is stressed with her two jobs and worried about her physics test on monday so i tell her ok i wont bother you since you need to study. Monday she takes the test but doesnt even bother to call me or text me to let me know about how it went. when i called her she was distant and wanted to get off the phone quickly, when i text her she responds with one word answers. I asked her tuesday what the problem was and she kept saying she is just really busy with school, work, and her cousin is visiting her this week. I havent contacted her since tuesday and she hasnt contacted me either. Feeling that there may be another guy in the picture.I finally decided to confront her on her recent actions last night and she kept stressing that its not another guy at all and that she just doesnt have time to or feel like doing the boyfriend thing right now and she doesn’t like how i am cocky and how i think that i know everything since i am in med school. After hearing that i told her we can go our seperate ways if she wants, but she said she doesn’t want to do that and wants to meet up next week so we can talk face to face after her cousin flys back to oregon. i just wanted to have closure instead of being in this dating purgatory. Is she just having a bad week and trying to take out her stress on me or do you think there is more to this situation than what she is telling me?